🌪 Reply with the word TANTRUM and I will DM you my FREE Prevent Tantrums Guide. 1. INVALIDATING THEIR FEELINGS and ideas. Toddlers have big feelings over small things which can seem over the top. But for them it is real and it is painful. Toddlers ask for the world and often our natural reaction is to take things personally and we shout, shame or laugh. We can still say no with kindness, understanding, playfulness and teamwork. Connect with them to help them feel seen, heard and valued. You can